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Betty Lou Wheeler

December 31, 1935 - December 5, 2017

Betty Lou (Staylor) Wheeler, 81, went to be with her Lord and Savior on December 5, 2017. Betty was born in Norfolk, Virginia to the late Inez Staylor and Robert (Juicy) Staylor.

Left to cherish her memory are her husband Joseph Lee Wheeler Sr., her daughter Debbie Wheeler Seals and her husband Donald Ray Seals, her sons Joseph Lee Wheeler Jr. and Robert (Bobby) Patrick Wheeler, her grandchildren Heather Wheeler Brummer and her husband Paul Francis Brummer, David Priest, Kristina Wheeler, Jake Wheeler, and Nick Burkhalter,  and her great grand children Chloe Wheeler and Preston Brummer.

She is proceeded in death by her sister Mary Francis (Staylor) Swanson. She also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

Viewing will be held at Altmeyer Funeral Home on Greenwhich Road, Virginia Beach on Monday, December 11, 2017.  at 10 :00 AM. Immediately after the viewing a graveside service will be held at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.


Service Information

Visitation Information

Date: Monday, December 11, 2017

Time: 10:00 am - 11:00 am


Altmeyer Funeral Home - Southside Chapel

5033 Rouse Drive
Virginia Beach, VA 23462

Cemetery Information

Date: Monday, December 11, 2017

Time: 11:30 am


Woodlawn Memorial Gardens

6309 E Virginia Beach Blvd.
Norfolk, Virginia 23502

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