Nelson Mendez

September 29, 1970 - February 27, 2018

09/29/1970 - 02/27/2018

Past Services

Visitation
Friday March 02, 2018
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Altmeyer Funeral Home - Southside Chapel
5033 Rouse Drive
Virginia Beach, VA 23462
(757) 422-4000 | Directions
Service
Saturday March 03, 2018
11:00 am
Altmeyer Funeral Home - Southside Chapel
5033 Rouse Drive
Virginia Beach, VA 23462
(757) 422-4000 | Directions
Cemetery
Arlington National Cemetery
1 Memorial Dr.
Arlington, VA
Directions

Nelson Mendez, 47, passed away peacefully on February 27, 2018.  He was born September 29, 1970 in Germany, a son of the late Gladys Perez.
Nelson was a patriot and served in the US Navy for 20 years.  In his free time, he enjoyed his collections and military vehicle models.
He was a beloved father, husband, son-in-law and friend.  Left to cherish his memory are his wife, Shila Mendez; children, Christian, Madison, and Isabelle; and three sisters.
Family and friends will be received at Altmeyer Funeral Home, 5792 Greenwich Road, VA Beach on Fri., March 2, 2018, from 6pm-8pm. Services will be held on Sat., March 3, 2018, 11am at the funeral home. Interment will be held at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.
Share your thoughts and memories of Nelson at www.altmeyerfh.com.
In memory of Nelson, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society by clicking HERE or The Wounded Warrior Project by clicking HERE.

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Nelson Joaquin Mendez
4 years ago

May God have mercy on you, Nelson. May He watch over and protect your beloved family. God Bless you. From one Nelson to another, I love you buddy.

Vanessa Rose
6 years ago

Nelson – So many memories. I count myself lucky to have known you. Love you my friend. Rest easy.
To your family – I am very sorry for your loss and I know that there are no words to make the hurt go away but you are all in our hearts, prayers, and thoughts.

Victor & Yvonne von Arx
6 years ago

Nelson was spending the weekend with us in West Berlin. I jad taken a bath and ehen i got out both boys were gone. Vic was TRY to who knows where and I was ups,1st. Finally here they come sauntering across the street. I met them with our fog leash, they both hot a swat with it while explaining they’d gone down to Amalfi for gelato. About 2 yrs sthool I promised Nelson if there family bkditecd k wouldn’t seat tj.e kids with the dog leash…we both laxughned.

Victor & Yvonne von Arx
6 years ago

Nelson was like one of our own. He was Sean’s friend, but he is family. You are all so loved.

Darrell Allison AO1 (SW) USN Ret.
6 years ago

I’m sadden to learn of my shipmates loss at such a young age. nelson was one of my go to guys while we served together aboard the USS AMERICA CV-66 in the early to mid 90’s. I was his Leading Petty Officer when we were in G-3 division. He and I made three or four Med cruises together and I remember him as a hard working young seaman who always had a smile on his face and who never complained; just did what had to be done and got on with it. I bid you fair winds and following seas shipmate.

Brian Duex
6 years ago

Nelson, thank you for the friendship we shared and the memories we created. Rest easy my friend. I love you. Condolences to your family, he will be missed but never forgotten.

Sean Stoddard
6 years ago

I was on watch at NAS Brunswick ME when you drove up to the gate in your 4 wheel drive telling me you were a new check in. I Served with you for 8 years. We had our differences but in truth, when the chips were down I knew you were right there. All those times playing xbox. All those times seeing what we could order for computer parts on the ship. All those. Times we rolled our eyes at the BS that was around us. never again. I knew that the one thing you cherished most was your family. I hope you knew how much people around you cherished you. You will be missed more then you know. Now if you excused me..I need to go Kick the shit out of Cancer. rest easy Nelson. See you on the other side.

Jeffrey Duex
6 years ago

I am thankful that I had the opportunity to have you as a friend Nelson. I want to say to the Family I am so sorry for your loss. I meet Nelson on leave when I had come home during my Active duty. He was my brother Brian’s friend!! He asked me a lot of questions about my time in the Navy. I will miss our conversations Nelson. Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate. To a great man,RIP

Hector C
6 years ago

Rest in Peace, Brother

Elise Weber
6 years ago

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Nelson. We were great friends during high school. My prayers and comfort to his family.