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Tom Cali

Died: June 16, 2016

Tom Cali

VIRGINIA BEACH- Tom Cali passed away peacefully June 16, 2016.

He is survived by his son Vance; brothers Billy and Russ (Barbara) Cali; sisters Sharon, Ceilia (Jim), and Meg (Patrick); and a large extended family including Diane and Roseann Kinne who were to the very end the best friends Tom could have ever asked for. Tom was predeceased by his parents Russ and Lavinia; his brothers Steve and Raymond and recently his nephew Michael.

Tom was an incredible drummer and was a founding member of Hotcakes. His humor, energy and love of life will be sorely missed.

A special thanks to all of the wonderful people at Currituck House where Tom spent the last years of his life. He was their “Rockstar” and they were our heroes.

In lieu of flowers the family is requesting memorial donations be made to Currituck House 141 Moyock Landing Dr., Moyock, N.C. 27958.

A Celebration of Life will be held Monday, June 20, 2016 at 7pm at Altmeyer Funeral Home, 5792 Greenwich Road, Virginia Beach.

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Service Information

Service Information

Date: Monday, June 20, 2016

Time: 7:00 pm


Altmeyer Funeral Home - Southside Chapel

5792 Greenwich Road
Virginia Beach, VA 23462

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