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Barbara J. Reaves

November 20, 1953 - September 8, 2018

Barbara was born to Bernard and Catherine O’Brien in Pensacola, FL on November 20, 1953. She passed away on September 8, 2018 surrounded by her loving family. Barbara is survived by her husband of 43 years, David Sr.; sons, David Jr. and Daniel; daughter, Megan; and granddaughter, Stella. She also leaves behind her brother, Bernard O’Brien Jr., and sisters Patti McRae (George), Kathleen Fullerton (Raymond) and Theresa Speight (Jeff).

The family will receive friends at Altmeyer Funeral Home, 5033 Rouse Dr., VA Beach, on Wednesday, September 12, 2018 from 7pm-9pm. A life celebration service will be held on Thursday, September 13, 2018, at 9:30 am, at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, family ask donations be made to Leukemia & Lymphoma Society at in Barbara’s name. Online condolences may be given to the family at

Service Information

Visitation Information

Date: Wednesday, September 12, 2018

Time: 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Altmeyer Funeral Home

5033 Rouse Drive

Virginia Beach, VA 23462

(757) 422-4000

Service Information

Date: Thursday, September 13, 2018

Time: 9:30 am

Altmeyer Funeral Home

5033 Rouse Drive

Virginia Beach, VA 23462

(757) 4224-4000

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