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Charis Lapsley-Blacka

November 15, 1964 - December 9, 2020

On Wednesday, December 9th, 2020, the beloved Charis Blacka, 56, of Norfolk, Virginia, passed away after a short illness. Charis struggled with many battles throughout her life. She fought hard, loved fierce, and lived life on her terms. This last battle, however, was too much for her body to conquer, though she tried valiantly. Left to cherish her memory is her son, Chandler Blacka, of Virginia Beach, who she loved more than life itself, and many friends and family members. Forever in our hearts.

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In my opinion, there is no better facility in Virginia than Altmeyer Funeral Homes. Not only was Chris Sisler there to hold my hand every step of the way, his family members were holding the door on the day of the funeral to help and encourage me. I will never forget their grace. He led me and my family through the process as a personal friend and neighbor, and as the ultimate professional.


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